from notice — a game by 8notice9
Questions for Couples
Long relationships have a default setting. These questions change the channel. They're for couples who love each other and want to keep discovering each other — because knowing someone isn't a destination, it's something you keep doing.
- 1Tell someone in the room something you've noticed about them but never said
- 2What's a question you wish someone would ask you?
- 3What meal feels like home?
- 4What's something you're proud of that you never talk about?
- 5Name a moment that changed the direction of your life
- 6What's a promise you will never break?
- 7What's something everyone assumes about you that isn't true?
- 8How do people in your life help you be a better person?
- 9What's one thing about love not enough people notice?
- 10What is your biggest green flag?
- 11What is your biggest red flag?
- 12If this is as good as it gets, would that be enough?
- 13What's a tradition you want to start but haven't yet?
- 14What is one thing 12-year-old you would say about your life right now?
- 15If your mood right now was a color, what color is it?
- 16Give any example like what falling in love feels like
- 17What's a lesson you keep having to relearn?
- 18What's a big thing on your mind these days?
frequently asked
How often should couples ask each other deep questions?
There's no schedule. But if you haven't learned something new about your partner in the last month, it's time. A weekly 'question night' — even just one question — can shift the entire dynamic of a relationship.
What if my partner doesn't like answering questions?
Then make it a game. Literally. Notice turns questions into something fun, not interrogative. When both people are answering, it feels like playing — not like being questioned.