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Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
You already know his favorite food. These questions go somewhere else. They're the kind that surface something you didn't know about someone you thought you knew completely. Best used when you're both relaxed — no agenda, just curiosity.
- 1Tell someone in the room something you've noticed about them but never said
- 2What's one thing about the person you're trying to become?
- 3If you could be remembered for one thing, what would it be?
- 4If your life had a title right now, what would it be?
- 5What's a question you wish someone would ask you?
- 6What meal feels like home?
- 7What are you obsessed with right now?
- 8What's a promise you will never break?
- 9If your mood right now was a color, what color is it?
- 10What is one of the best feelings in the world to you?
- 11What did you want to be when you were a kid?
- 12What is one thing 12-year-old you would say about your life right now?
- 13Do you have a dream you never told anyone about?
- 14What's something everyone assumes about you that isn't true?
- 15If you could hear what one person in this room really thinks of you, who?
- 16What's something you find beautiful that most people overlook?
- 17What's something you own that you'd never sell no matter the offer?
- 18Rate your current happiness from 1-10. Now explain the number
frequently asked
How do I get my boyfriend to open up?
Don't ask him to open up — ask him a question worth opening up for. The best way is to go first. Share your own answer honestly, and he'll follow. Questions from a game or a list feel safer than 'we need to talk.'
When should I ask these questions?
When you're already hanging out — not as a scheduled 'relationship check-in.' On a drive, while cooking, or just lying on the couch. The less formal, the more honest the answers.